Hello my name is Kate Shaw - As Wellbeing Lead for children and families I work as part of our Inclusion Team supporting children, parents and carers.
Our aim at St Joseph's is to support families and encourage children to enjoy school and feel happy and secure.
I am able to provide support for children and carers. I am also a link between home and school, and an ongoing contact as children move from school to school.
During term time, we work in partnership with parents and carers, school, and other agencies to support families - aiming to resolve current issues and prevent future difficulties.
I can help....
Children who are experiencing difficult times or who are withdrawn and anxious.
Parents or carers experiencing difficulties with their children's behaviour.
Families who are reacting to change, such as parental separation or bereavement.
Parents and carers whose children are reluctant to attend school or have been excluded.
Parents or carers who may need support on a wide range of issues or difficulties impacting on their family life e.g. illness, domestic violence, disability or financial difficulties.
I can also...
Help with links between you and school.
Support you at school meetings.
Help you towards other sources of help, advice and support.
Provide information on support groups for parents and carers.
Work closely with the Inclusion Lead to support wider issues.
Please contact me via the school office by calling 0208 546 7178 or via email at kshaw@stjosephs.rbksch.org
With your consent we will explore the difficulties your child or family is experiencing and try to find the best way forward together.
We are regularly updating this page to give you access to up to date advice and links to resources on all wellbeing Issues.
NEW MENTAL HEALTH AND WELLBEING EVENTS AT ST JOSEPHS Spring/Summer 2024
MHST ONLINE EVENTS
We are very happy to share the details of the next webinars being presented by the MHST for 2023 - 2024
Please book using the google form below the headings.
Helping Children with Worries: 7, 8 March
The ‘Helping children with worries’ webinar will help you learn ways to support your child in dealing with their big feelings, worries and fears. This webinar will give you practical ideas on how to help your child to think more positively and develop their self confidence. You will also be introduced to some helpful cognitive behavioural therapy concepts.
Helping Children with Resilience: 21, 22 March
The ‘Helping children with resilience’ webinar will support you in understanding how children develop resilience, while exploring a variety of helpful coping skills, and what you can do as a parent or carer to help them be their most confident self.
Helping Children with Friendships: 18 and 19 April
In this workshop we will learn how to support our children develop their friendship skills: learning to communicate better, repair difficulties, and negotiate solutions when relationships between peers are tricky.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1C2YDsm9fxMffeOiygaAFBXyiWyCMwWuROXqvxYHQGx0/edit?usp=sharing
Information Leaflet for the MHST 'Helping Children With' Webinar series
Helping Children With Webinar Series for 2023-24
The Mental Health Support Team At St Josephs
St Josephs are very happy to be working in partnership with the Mental Health Support Team. We have an Emotional Wellbeing Practitioner called Serena Bargary who works at the school on Friday afternoons she is offering 1-1 sessions with parents who need support with their children's challenging behaviour, low mood or anxiety. Parents can self refer for these sessions using the google doc linked below or access sessions via our wellbeing lead. She also offers regular parent workshops through the year on topics that parents feel are important for them such as managing challenging behaviour and supporting your anxious child.
For more information please see the video introduction and leaflet linked below.
Leaflet: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1QpRD8QsKqmi4Yly-iX0MKr_tMUKAvkju/view?usp=sharing
Video Intro: https://drive.google.com/file/d/16NsYzViweG6hsvt1YxrSqNMjvnyGcNHI/view?usp=sharing
Google form for self referral to the MHST
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3NjZM6BGpmcXffV1-dVju39CZPMtyt5GP7EgO42q2X3pERQ/viewform
An Introduction to Emotion Coaching for Parents - As an Attachment Aware School we promote the use of Emotion Coaching in school and at home
Link to the Powerpoint Presentation for Our Wellbeing talk on Promoting Resilience in the Primary Years
FUEL Programme in Kingston - Easter 2024
FUEL (which stands for ‘Feed Ur Everyday Lives’) is the name for the holiday activity and food programme (HAF) in the Royal Borough of Kingston upon Thames and the London Borough of Richmond upon Thames. It is funded by the Department of Education and run by Achieving for Children.
There are free places at holiday clubs available during the Easter, summer and Christmas holidays for young people who receive benefit related free school meals. Young people can attend 4 sessions over Easter, 16 sessions over the summer and 4 sessions over winter.
Choosing and booking activities
You can see what clubs are running activities as part of the FUEL programme over the Easter holiday by using this web address which you can copy and paste -
https://kr.afcinfo.org.uk/pages/community-information/information-and-advice/fuel-holiday-activities-and-food-programme/fuel-programme-in-kingston-easter-2024
or follow this link Local Offer website
To book a free place you will need your child's unique 17 digit FUEL booking code. If you have not received your child's code, please contact the school office or email fuel@achievingforchildren.org.uk.
Our School Health Team are now offering the Henry Project -
Everyone wants the best for their children, but it can be hard to know what to do as a parent as they grow up. That’s where HENRY comes in.
The Your Healthcare HENRY team offer 8 week programmes and one off workshops for parents of children between 0-12.
HENRY practitioners work in partnership with parents to set goals that work for them and support a healthy lifestyle.
Parents can self refer using the link below or get in touch with Kate to find out more.
Rainbows Bereavement Support
We are pleased to announce an addition to our School programme.
Beginning in February 2023 we will be having weekly support groups for our children who are living in single parent, step-families, or have experienced any painful loss. This programme is called RAINBOWS.
When something significant happens in a family, the entire family is affected. Even though death, divorce or other loss issues appear to be only grown-up problems, they have a profound effect on the children who are touched by such experiences. If a parent dies, a divorce happens, or some other painful loss occurs, not only do the parents grieve, the children do also. Children may find it extremely difficult to verbalise their feelings of grief because of their age and inexperience.
We have some very sensitive, caring and trained adults who have said “yes” to helping these children put their feelings into words, work through their grief, build a stronger sense of self-esteem, and begin to accept what has taken place in the family.
If your child is part of a single parent family, a step-family, has experienced the death of a loved family member, friend or sibling, or is struggling through a painful experience, this will be an opportunity for him/her to share with a special someone.
Please see the Rainbows Information for Parents leaflet below and get in touch with the school office on 0208 546 7178 to arrange a time to talk to Kate about your child joining the Rainbows program
If your financial circumstances have changed for any reason and you need to apply for free school meals you can apply through Kingston Council by pressing the link below and filling out the electronic form. If you need any support with this process please get in touch with the school office and we will help you.
FREE SCHOOL MEALS APPLICATION
Cost Of Living Crisis
We are aware that since the pandemic there have been a lot of changes to people's financial situations throughout the borough which have been worsened with fuel costs and rising food prices. We are a food bank voucher distributor and have links with local charities that can help to support families in times of difficulty. Please do get in touch and I can talk through the services that can help.
Local Charity Save the world Club offer a daily food redistribution service that anyone can sign up to -
WELLBEING RESOURCES
Counselling and Support Services found in Kingston
SW London has a new website - Healthier Together which has been designed to support parents to get the right information about common childhood illnesses. The project has been led by Paul Cooper, Programme Manager and Dr Darren Ranasinghe, Paediatric Consultant, and signposts parents, carers and pregnant people to the right point of care.
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Healthier Together
Healthier Together - A tool that gives consistent, accurate and trustworthy healthcare advice. The information on this site has been reviewed by experts in child health - your local paediatricians, GPs and clinicians across the region.
Mental Health Awareness Week Nature Guide for Parents and Caregivers
Finances
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Money Advice Service
A link to all information about different benefit entitlments during this time, coronavirus and sick pay, coronavirus and travel / insurance issues stc
Local Wellbeing and Health Advice and Organisations
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Compassionate Neighbours
Compassionate Neighbours are trained volunteers offering friendship and listening. Website gives informaiton on worldwide compassionate action in the present coronavirus climate and ways to get in touch for connecting and friendship.
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Samaritans
Samaritans KIngston - Phone: 116 123 - free from any phone or email jo@samaritans.org 24 hours Samaritans offer emotional support for anyone struggling to cope.
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The Save The World Club
Local Charity offering recycled household goods via the Circulatory in Berrylands and redistributed food to any one who needs it
Services to Use If You Are Worried about Your Safety or the Safety of a Child
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NSPCC
Help for adults concerned about a child
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Child LIne
Childline - Comforts, advises and protects children 24 hours a day and offers free confidential counselling. Phone 0800 1111 (24 hours) Chat 1-2-1 with a counsellor online
Help and Support for anyone worried about the emotional well being or Mental Health of a young person aged from 0-25
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Young Minds
Online and helpline support for anyone worried about the emotional well being or mental health of a young person aged 0-25
Parenting Advice and Free Helpline - open daily
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Family LIves
Family lives have a free help line that offers support and advice on any aspect of parenting and family life - they have volunteers working from home 9am-9pm Mon-Fri and 10am-3pm Sat/Sun 0808 800 2222
Ukraine Crisis
We are collecting useful links below which we hope will be helpful when talking to your children about the present crisis in Ukraine including children's news sites where you can watch the news and talk together, feeling reassured that the content is appropriate for children.
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Child Line
Advice for Children Worrying about Russia and Ukraine
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Newsround
Children's News coverage and advice about talking to children about what is happening in the Ukraine
Please click on the links below to find out more information regarding each subject/organisation.
Please click on the rainbow icon below for more information about our well-being focus from previous terms.